Q: I have a 3-year-old cat named Odie who needs to lose weight. (He weighs 32 pounds.) Odie and I moved out on our own this past year and he gets very mad at me when I leave. He tries to knock my pictures off the walls and he opens all my cabinets and pulls things out. When I get home, he is still mad and by bedtime he is soaked because I’ve squirted him to try and get him to calm down. He went from being a total inside cat to me letting him outside with my supervision.
A: Odie isn’t engaging in destructive behaviors because he is mad at you. Your cat is bored and most likely experiencing separation anxiety. Your cat is attached to you and when you leave him alone, your cat becomes anxious. Instead of squirting your cat with water and causing him to feel more stressed, change your cat’s unwanted behavior by addressing the reasons behind it.
Give your cat mental stimulation to prevent cat boredom. Interactive toys, more activities and possibly adopting another cat can help keep your cat away from destructive behaviors. Interactive toys that Odie might enjoy include puzzle boxes, ball and tract toys, ping pong balls and safe dental health chew toys. Tall cat trees placed in front of secure windows can also keep him entertained.
Additionally, help your cat feel less stressed when alone by interacting with him through specific activities. Before leaving for the day, engage your cat in treasure hunts. Hide either treats or his regular food throughout your home, on his cat trees, window perches, puzzle boxes and in on other creative places. Daily multiple play sessions will help stop the behavior. Playing with your cat in a way that imitates the hunt will tire out Odie. An added bonus is that play will help burn calories.
Place clothing that has your scent in Odie’s sleeping areas to help your cat feel secure, and that you haven’t abandoned him. Classical music can also help relax your cat. In addition to keeping Odie entertained, another cat may help ease Odie’s anxieties when you are gone. If you decide to adopt a buddy, introduce them to each other gradually.